Conscious LeaderInner Game

Purposeful Leadership: The Value Lens

from values on a poster→to values at the fork

The Goal

Filter the next decision through the value you say you live by — expand it, don’t dilute it.

Ideal For

Leadership offsites, performance-management edge cases, ethical decision points, and strategic trade-offs where short-term cost tests long-term commitment.

The Shift

From values on a poster to values at the fork.

The Science

Focusing on one attribute, like a named value, tends to increase how much it weighs in a choice. Reflecting on a core value tends to make people less defensive about difficult information, and goals that express your own values tend to get more sustained effort.

The Values Filter, step by step

  1. Bring a live decision (pre-work)One current decision where the options pull against something you value, with the options you are weighing.
  2. FilterName the value and why it matters, then the decision. If naming the value doesn’t make the decision harder, pick a different value.
  3. TestFor options A and B, write the one feature that bears on the value; only then add an honest option C. Ask of each: does it expand the value, or dilute it?
  4. DecidePick the option that most expands the value, and name its cost out loud.
  5. The value-aligned move“When [moment], I will [the option that expands the value]”, with the cost you are accepting. A partner checks in within a week.

The techniques, and why they work

Name the value first

Pick the lens before the options: which value, and why it matters here. Focusing attention on one attribute tends to increase how much it weighs in a choice.

Values at the fork

Lay out A, B and an honest C, then ask which one expands the value rather than dilutes it. Reflecting on a core value tends to make people less defensive about difficult information.

Make the move, count the cost

Commit to one move with an if-then plan and name what it costs. Goals that express your own values tend to get more sustained effort.